Wanted to blog these long time ago was too lazy… now kinda forgot most the nasty treatment they gave. Anyway it is nothing worth remembering. But here are some of it
In my previous department i always wondered why it is so political. Cause now i am in another department working as secretary i dun seems to face things like that.
Let me start with the act “big” department head, ET – He abused his power to bully people. Just because he doesn’t like the person; he will find all means to get rid of them. And oh well I am 1 of the victim. Just because I didn’t want to do something cause i really cannot handle it and feel unjust to do it and credits are not mine. he decides that he should get rid of me cause he is not able to control me. Well i got to know these from colleagues. And not just that he wanted JC (my direct manager then) to always picked on small mistakes. eg i missed out fullstops. He wants her to constantly criticized me so that i would think that i have never improved and would leave. I was given alot of work so that i will not be able to cope (my previous job scope is now split and done by a officer and an assistant. what the?! I use to do it alone and am only a senior assistant) and eventually give up. What manipulative spirit. OK he gets what he wants now BUT the negative seeds that he had sown will eventually yield its harvest. He is afraid that what he does in his department (eg dirty jokes and hugging female employees) would get out and be made known to those that has the authority to take action against him so he wants those that have potential to get him into trouble to get out. hmmmm…. To prevent getting into trouble, he would constantly get rid of potential threats. It is a tiresome task or maybe he already got use to it? Recently I just got to know a manager is leaving. Well he is in his retirement age. But i think the treatments he received is unreasonable. Why does he needs to shouted at and embarrassed by ET? Just because ET is 1 level higher than him and that manager was someone he cannot get along with. To me the actions of ET is childish and the behavior exhibit to the world his insecurity. He needs all those to make him feel superior. It is where his esteem, confident and self image are found. How pathetic. I think through the few reasons of behaving that way. Probably he got nothing better to do than to stir trouble AKA trouble maker. Maybe he really needs attention so even if it is negative attention still better than none. or Maybe it is his character flaw.
JC – a female manager. She listened and do everything that ET asked her to do. Just like a puppet. Ask her to treat this person like this she will do it. Probably by now she becomes so bitter, she forgot how joy feels like. Her soul is probably poisoned by ET constant negative remarks. She looks bitter. After treating people nasty, she may feel the “shiokness” of being nasty but after that she will be even more unhappy, synical and bitter than before. What is the use of looking pretty on the outside but soul is bleed black and bitter thoughts. Who likes to go near her?! A constantly PMS-ed being… hmmm to me she is ugly; not in appearance but in her heart. Ugliness is the only word i can think of.
CK – Supposedly nice person BUT she will listened to what u had said and twist the story to make it look bad on you. Then she will try to brainwash and manipulate people around. 2 headed snake. HAhAh i got to know that after leaving. Oh well… it ok even though she has already spread alot of untruth about me and back stabbed me umpteen times. But well i believe Vengeance is God’s. He will do what He think is just and fitting for the situation. And CK gets me thinking of what jealousy can cause people to become. Probably CK was very jealous about not getting enough attention as compared to my other colleagues who are fun and nice.
EY – a close colleague. Sweet and nice. Soft hearted too. She said “Jean died without knowing who killed her” she is trying to hint me about CK.
AY – Always nice just like a mother to me… =) Protected me most of the time.
BUT WELL I CAN PUT ALL THESE BEHIND NOW. =) CAUSE I HAVE TWO GOOD BOSSES NOW. BOTH TREATS ME WELL!!! THANK GOD.I will only remember the good things, the bad things can be thrown away. I need those memory space for praise-worthy things.
A BLESSING IN DISGUISE. Thru it, i learn to be a real person and i realise i dun have problem being nice to people cause i have the capacity to do so. It doesn’t kill or cause me to lose anything just by being nice . I enjoy being nice.
PS: everyone comes out to make a living. we have family to feed ad bills to pay. Why do you need to make people lose their job and go into a crisis? It is not as though they are doing badly, it just that you….
LET others live…
