(About Future…….)
After much consideration, i decided to take up courses to upgrade myself. SO in April 2009 I will sign up for dip in hospitality with MDIS, Hopefully this time i will complete the course cause i’m the one paying for it hahaha… so gotta plan my finances properly to make sure i have the money to pay my fees and to buy books. looking forward.. hee…
What i want to do after i graduate? Probably i would apply for a job in Japan and start off as their management trainee the work my way up. I want to learn how to run a hotel. Maybe i will start with front desk. But oh my … i will suffer a pay cut. But for the sake of doing what i want think i have to make some sacrifices. For the last 7yrs i worked for the sake of surviving and money but now i want to do something to my likings… if say i can make it to be a stewardess then that is good but if not, i have to seriously consider what i wanna do for the rest of my life.
I thank God that i started working when i was very young cause now when i am 25 it is still not too late for me to have a career switch.
(Issues of my heart)
When i was younger, I blamed life for making me go through so many things. I wondered why can’t i have a normal life with parents to provide me. Why must i go through so much hurts and grow up by myself and learn to relate and handle people only when i started to work? Why do i have to work after secondary education and cant enjoy tertiary life? Why must my parents be so harsh on me? When i was 17, I wonder why do i have to work so that i can substain myself when friends of my age were having fun? Why my mom has to hurled abuse at me? Why must i hide in the room and cried myself to sleep” WHY? WHY? WHY? So many questions yet no answers. Even now, 8 yrs later i still don’t fully understand the reasons for going through all those. But through it, i learn to be strong and learn how to move on with life after crying over things that i have no control over.
Now situation are not as bad, probably it is because my parents are older. Probably i have matured and learn to understand them. Probably i got use to it. We can talk and probably relationships are better. Sometimes i cant help but to think of my parents childhood. Probably, they may not have a proper childhood and parental love. And very likely their parents treated them like how they had treated me. Probably they din know any better. I learn to love them and I will learn to how express my love for them so that they can experience it..
There are many things that I am unsure but one thing i am very sure about and that is God and His lovingkindness. He picked me up when i was at my lowest point. Gave me a chance to start all over again..
Thank you God for picking me up when i was lost… Without You, probably I would have already e…. .. ….
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Part of the lyrics from Amazing Grace
My chains are gone
I’ve been set free
My God, my Savior has ransomed me
And like a flood His mercy reigns
Unending love, Amazing grace
(This part of the song speaks alot to me)
I flop hahaha… Short by 2cm.. but at least i try.. am happy still….
I am going to go for the walk in interview for stewardess… I decided and am a little anxious abt it… No harm trying cause i wouldnt know the result if i never try… hee..
Unfortunate me know this someone… He thinks he is suave and handsome and manly and whatever he wanna think he is. But actually he is directly opposite of what he thinks he is. And in fact i can’t stand… He whines like a girl, behave like a kid and make stupid decision which i think it is totally not practical and in fact stupid. Current gratification is more important than future. Hmmm he always thinks he is a casonova and super handsome… BUT i was thinking, he has not seen the world yet. not that i seen a lot but i think i seen enough to make this comment. hmmm he is a below average looking guy, probably 2/10 (well u know what i mean when u see him)… who doesnt have qualification, looks, money or statues. He got nothing… and what on earth makes he thinks that he is a casanova…
There is this incident that happened that makes me wonder if he is a male… Once i wanted to buy something not exactly wanna buy but was thinking of being nice to spend time with him since we din met for a long while.. Then in the end i din cause i never see what i wanted… so we go for movie.. i wanted to watch a certain show, he insisted of watching a show that he had watched before and whine like a girl in the cinema.. I was like can u just stop it… I have tolerated ur whine the whole day…. The few days later he gotta call me and sms me to chat.. I am like din we just spend time.. why need to be so clingy.. just because u accompany me to buy something that i din buy in the end?? well then i got fed up when he called when watching television.. so i was hostile.. he later send me an sms to say i am cranky for thinking he whatever.. i am like come on i am not thinking anything but YOU ARE ANNOYING AND GETTING ON MY NERVES!!!! Then on his msn nick he put something which really pisses me off… I wanna tell him: DUN MAKE IT SOUND AS THOUGH U DID SOMETHING GREAT AND CLANG ON TO ME WHEN IT IS JUST A SMALL THING!!!!. Come on if you dun have capacity to give and help people then get the hell out of people’s life la.. you are nothing more than a whimp who whines and complaint the whole day… DAMN i never met a male who is so sissy in my life… GOSH!!!
Let us be very honest with ourselves.There are many people who comes in and out of our life… People we considered love ones, friends and acquaintance… To everyone we only want to give a certain amount of time, energy and money to them. If someone wants to take more than what you are willing to give, then he/she is just being IDIOTIC.. and dun blame others when they got a hostile responds… He/she has overstepped his/her boundary.. It is totally disrespect to his ‘friends’ time and personal space… This is call idiot…
Then i asked him to take help take photo, a service which pays.. and guess what he is stupid enough to reject it and ask me to ask someone else to do it. (that is after i asked yz and he not interested. yz can be not interested cause he is establish and good.. he got good pay and dun need that few tens…) then i am like you really make dumb decision for yourself…. but it is really ok cause i just remembered i got one friend who is also a pro with lightings and also he will edit for me and it is free… this is what i call someone with capacity to give.. a man..
So i come to a conclusion that whimps are whimps that can never changes his sissy attitude.. and he is a desperate whimp trying hard to win gals heart… but well.. HAHAHHA
SO shiok to say everything… the wonder of personal blog…
